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Sheva Brachot

Officiating a Theatrical Synagogue Wedding in New York

October 5, 2014 by Rabbi Gloria Milner

     Angel Orensanz is an 1850’s German synagogue on the Lower East Side of NYC.  It was a working synagogue until the 1970’s when the drug dealers and homeless occupied it.  Two brothers many years later bought the structure and restored it to its former glory.  Many celebrities such as Sarah Jessica Parker had their weddings there.  Whitney Houston recorded there and a Smash episode of a Bollywood dance hall was filmed there.  Imagine my surprise when a couple who lived on the lower east side a block away had told me they reserved this space a year ahead and wanted me to officiate the synagogue wedding.

     He was  a New Yorker and she was of Russian descent.  They had to bring in all the food and tables and chairs.  They selected great Russian food from the Cabaret/Supper Club Rasputin in Brooklyn and Bar B Q from a vendor in Manhattan.  It turned out to be a magical combination of tastes and colors.  They also selected a Klezmer band that walked down the aisle after the glass was broken reminiscent of the small village weddings in Eastern Europe.  And the space was soaring with room for three balconies and a capacity of 800 people.  When the lighting was on it transported those there into another realm (see the picture). 

     I visited them in their apartment and we fashioned the service so that all their relatives and friends could participate.  Seven different people read the Sheva Brachot (7 blessings) in Hebrew and English, the groom’s grandmother read a touching poem,and the bride and groom created their own personal vows.   I felt like I was the facilitator of an amazing event that many people shared in.  I can only say how privileged i was to be introduced to this venue by the couple and hope to preside there again.

 

 

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Same Sex Wedding in Upper Manhattan

January 7, 2014 by Rabbi Gloria Milner

Glasses, Sparkling Wine, Cheers, Sun Set, Evening     

A colleague of mine recommended that two women call me to arrange for a same sex wedding in NYC.  They had such an interesting story.  They had both been previously married and were living in the mountain area of North Carolina.  Their common work field was speech pathology.  I spoke to each of them and we started working on the service.  They were raising two boys, 9 and 7, who were going to be the ring bearers.  The 20-something daughter of one of the women was an actress in the city who they decided would read the English version of the Sheva Brachot.  Her boyfriend, an actor, was the videographer.

     As luck would have it the brother of the bride owned a restaurant in Inwood where a small group of about 20 friends and family assembled.  With the strains of Frank Sinatra in the background as part of the restaurant vibe, I conducted a ceremony and declared them Wife and Wife.  They spoke the vows they had written, then broke two glasses, and many tears and laughter were  a part of this special service!  

     Before the meal began we celebrated Shabbat together with candle lighting, prayer over the bread and wine and I blessed all present. I stayed for a wonderful dinner and they presented me with a beautiful gift of handicrafted slate and wood that a craftsman from the town had done.  As i rode back downtown on the A-train their warmth and love pervaded me.  

Mazel Tov and Best Wishes to them!

 

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A Poetic, Interfaith Wedding on the Chelsea Pier

August 29, 2012 by Rabbi Gloria Milner

     A couple came to me for their interfaith wedding, who had researched and rejected many rabbis they interviewed.  They had known each other many years and were living in Manhattan.  She had grown up in Israel and he was from the States raised in the Christian faith.  They had definite ideas about the ceremony and service and we set about fashioning the service in my apartment during  a number of meetings. They had decided to marry on the Chelsea Pier in New York.

     It struck me after the second or third meeting that aside from the structure of the Jewish wedding ceremony that had certain prayers and rituals that they were going to teach me some things about poetry and vows that I hadn’t known.  Sure enough they came up with three different English translations of the Seven Wedding Blessings (Sheva Brachot) and went with the most poetic and beautiful one

     They had a number of friends who were participating in the service and read poems by Denise Levertov, a modern poet and one by Ann Bradstreet who went back to the colonial days.  The most creative reading was by A.A. Milne “Us Two”  which of course involved Pooh.  The last few lines of this were beautiful and relevant to the wedding and the two people getting married.  They were   “It isn’t much fun for One, but Two Can stick together,” says Pooh,  says he.  That’s how it is,” says Pooh. 

     I admired the ease at which this couple related to one another.  They supported each other and had a kindness and compassion that I rarely find.  It is as if the words of this poem and their joy  in being together were one.

 

 

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A loving and vibrant person, Rabbi Gloria creates positive energy for everyone she encounters. Whether creating Jewish or interfaith weddings, or conducting baby-naming ceremonies, she takes the extra time to consider the thoughts and dreams of the participants. Her clients feel she is part of their family!

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